How to cope with change | Bible Wisdom

A short video from a Biblical perspective about how to cope with change. It’s the start of a new academic year, and there have been so many other changes lately – how do we cope? In this video we think about how we can take comfort from God in these times.

Bible verses I talk about:

  • James 1:17 “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”
  • Hebrews 13:8 “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and for ever.”
  • Genesis 50:20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”
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Does God give us what we want?

Verses such as Psalm 37:4 say that God fulfils our desires. But what does that mean? Why is it that so much of the time it seems like we don’t have everything that we want?

Key Points

  • Psalm 37:4 suggests that God does fulfil our desires: “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” – so why does that seem so alien to our experience?
  • There are two wrong ways of looking at desire:
    1. Our desires are all sinful and wrong (asceticism). This is the belief that godliness is denying ourselves of everything, people such as Simeon Stylites. However, this is wrong because of e.g. 1 Timothy 4:3-5 – God made good things in the world to be received with thanks. Our desires are not all wrong.
    2. Our desires are everything (hedonism). This is the belief that we should seek for all our desires to be fulfilled all the time – think about the song I Want it All by Queen. BUT – this is wrong because we are not to do what we want (Galatians 5:17), plus when we get our desires we often them empty (see the book of Ecclesiastes, such as Eccl. 2:10-11).
  • Does this mean we are stuck with one of these two options, or somewhere in between?
  • There is a third way! “God + Desire = fulfilment”.
  • The first part of Psalm 37:4 is “Take delight in the Lord”. When we desire God first and foremost, then we can really start enjoying everything else.
    • We enjoy good things as a gift from God (James 1:17)
    • We ask our heavenly Father for the things we want (James 4:1-3)
    • We mustn’t be resentful for when God doesn’t give us things! God is not a cosmic killjoy.
    • God often wants us to have a deeper fulfilment than we could desire for ourselves.
  • Ultimately, our desires are fulfilled in Jesus – as God forgives us for our sin (including sinful desires), and makes us new by giving us new desires.

Explore Further

The series on Ecclesiastes is on the YouTube playlist.

Your questions answered

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Review: Rejoice and Tremble by Michael Reeves

Every so often a book comes along that really makes you sit up and think. As I said in recent video, there are a lot of average Christian books. Now there’s absolutely nothing wrong with average Christian books, in the same way there’s nothing wrong with an average meal: they keep us going and it may be exactly what we need at the time. But there are some books which go deeper and change our thinking. In my view, Rejoice and Tremble by Michael Reeves is one of those books.

What is the book about?

The book is subtitled: “The surprising good news of the fear of the Lord”. That’s what it’s all about – the fear of the Lord. It’s a topic we don’t spend enough time thinking about, and yet it’s a hugely important one. As Proverbs says, “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge” (Proverbs 1:7) (something I looked at here a few months ago).

But what exactly IS the fear of the Lord? Aren’t Christians told that we are now free from fear? As John says, “The one who fears is not made perfect in love” (1 John 4:18). So does that mean that love and fear are opposites? Reeves says that the two things go together:

My aim now is to cut through this discouraging confusion. I want you to rejoice in this strange paradox that the gospel both frees us from fear and gives us fear. It frees us from our crippling fears, giving us instead a most delightful, happy, and wonderful fear. And I want to clear up that often off-putting phrase “the fear of God,” to show through the Bible that for Christians it really does not mean being afraid of God.

The book proceeds by looking at different aspects of the fear of the Lord, and showing how it can be misunderstood, but also how important and good it is to fear the Lord.

What was the most striking think about the book?

The most striking / insightful thing about the book for me came near the beginning. Reeves starts the book by looking at how fear can be a negative thing – how we simply be afraid of God. This matters when we look for e.g. security:

When people, through misunderstanding, become simply afraid of God, they will never entrust themselves to him but must turn elsewhere for their security. In fact, it is when people have this confused fear of God that they turn to other gods.

When we are afraid of God, we don’t trust in him or his goodness. Events might seem terrifying to us, because we don’t trust in God to protect us or to work events for our good. In fact, if we don’t trust in God, we look to safety elsewhere and turn to other gods. Reeves quotes John Calvin:

When unbelievers transfer the government of the universe from God to the stars, they fancy that their bliss or their misery depends upon the decrees and indications of the stars, not upon God’s will; so it comes about that their fear is transferred from him, toward whom alone they ought to direct it, to stars and comets.

I thought this was a really profound observation. Our society at the moment is a very fearful society. People are very worried about death, and many people have observed that death is something we just don’t talk about. Whereas the taboo in Victorian society was sex, the modern 21st century taboo is death. People do anything to avoid the fact they are getting older (how many anti-aging products do you see advertised?). I think it’s interesting to compare our society’s reaction to the coronavirus pandemic with the way our society has reacted to pandemics of the past. In particular, I believe that these last few months have been characterised by fear in a way that hasn’t happened before.

Where does this fear come from – whether fear of aging, fear of death, or fear of illness? It comes from from being afraid of God: we don’t believe he has our best interests at heart, we don’t believe in his goodness. Therefore we turn to other gods.

What are the strengths of the book?

I think the book has many strengths:

  • Michael Reeves is always an entertaining writer: that’s not to say it’s full of jokes! Rather, this is not a book of dull and dusty prose, but it’s brimming with life and love for the Lord.
  • Reeves quotes from ancient writers a lot, including people such as John Bunyan (who wrote a book on the fear of the Lord). One of the things I really appreciate about his work is that it is ‘standing on the shoulders of giants’. I like to read books which are backed with insights from previous generations. It’s so easy to reinvent the wheel, but this book gives historical wisdom and insight.
  • The book is not merely intellectual but deeply pastoral. What I mean by that is, this book will help you not just in knowing more about the Lord but loving him more. I’ll expand on this more in a moment.
  • The book is not overly long – although there is a concise version available (see the end), I thought it wasn’t heavy in the way some theological books can be. I think it would be accessible to all thoughtful Christians.

Why is this book important right now?

As I read through the book, one of the things which struck me was that the ‘fear of the Lord’ was intimately related to a living and active faith in God. As I try to make clear at every opportunity here on Understand the Bible, the Christian life is not merely about knowing a set of facts, but living our whole lives with Jesus at the centre. The fear of the Lord encapsulates this perfectly – you can’t simply know about the fear of the Lord. You experience it.

This is a message which many writers through the ages have spoken – for example, one of my personal heroes, Francis Schaeffer. In the Western world at the moment we are undergoing a real crisis of faith – many people in the world know nothing about God. And, sadly, we see many people turning to other gods for safety and security, comfort, and many other things.

If we in the church desire to make an impact, we need to recover the important teaching of the fear of the Lord: we need to do more than know about God; we need to know him. We need to fear him – rightly. That’s why this teaching about the fear of the Lord is so important.

Concluding remarks

I think this is an excellent book, and I recommend it to every Christian. I think it could well become a book which I would be happy to add to my list of books to ‘renew your mind’!

There is a ‘lighter’ book called What does it Mean to Fear the Lord? which is a smaller version of Rejoice & Tremble, so if you want something which is a smaller read than you could try that. (It’s also a bit cheaper!) But I think most people could manage, and profit from, Rejoice & Tremble.

It is published by Crossway and you can buy it from there, or from 10 of Those.

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10 Books to RENEW your mind

One of the best ways to grow in the Christian faith is to read good Christian books. But there are so many Christian books out there! How do we know which ones are best? In this video I pick 10 of the books which have been most helpful to me.

Books

  1. The Good God by Michael Reeves
  2. The Cross of Christ by John Stott
  3. Knowing God by J.I. Packer
  4. How People Change by Paul Tripp & Timothy Lane
  5. True Spirituality by Francis Schaeffer (my review / summary)
  6. Communion with God by John Owen
  7. A Body of Divinity by Thomas Watson (Free eBook)
  8. The Whole Christ by Sinclair Ferguson
  9. The Pilgrim’s Progress (Modern English edition) by John Bunyan (Free PDF)
  10. Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis
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Why did God command Abraham to sacrifice Isaac?

In Genesis 22, God commands Abraham to sacrifice his son Isaac. Although in the end Abraham did not have to sacrifice Isaac, it still raises questions: why did God make the command in the first place? The answer to this question appears if we stand back to look at the bigger picture.

Key points

  • Child sacrifice was a serious offence to God – it was forbidden under penalty of death (Leviticus 20:2)
  • Jesus loved children – for example Mark 10:13-16
  • So why did God command it?
  • v1 says that God “tested” Abraham
    • Testing is an exercise in trust. v5 and v8 suggest that Abraham thought he was going to come back with Isaac and that God would provide a sacrifice.
    • In v12 the angel says “Now I know you fear the Lord” – there’s often a difference between knowing something intellectually, and knowing it so that it makes a difference.
    • The quote is taken from C.S. Lewis’ book A Grief Observed
  • In v13-14 we see that God himself does provide. What’s the big picture?
    • v2 says that Abraham was going to the region of “Moriah” – only found in one other place in the Bible (2 Chron 3:1) – where the temple was built. God is giving is a picture.
    • Who did provide their only loved son as a sacrifice? – God!
    • Genesis 22 is a lesson for us, that God’s blessings come through sacrifice – but that God himself provides the sacrifice.
  • Why was it right for God to sacrifice Jesus? – John 10:17-18. Jesus laid down his life – it wasn’t like human beings sacrificing an innocent child!

Explore further

The video that provoked this question was about understanding violence in the Old Testament.

Your questions answered

This is part of the Your questions answered feature. See that page for more videos in the series.

If you have a question about Christianity or the Bible, please send them in or comment below.

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How do we understand violence in the Old Testament?

People often find the violence in the Old Testament off-putting. Why is there so much violence? And why does God seem to command it sometimes? In this video we look briefly at how we should understand violence in the Old Testament.

Key points…

  • We need to distinguish between two kinds of violence in the Old Testament.
  • First, the violence which people do.
    • We often read about violence in the papers – this is because the violence is factual! The Bible often reports factual violence without condoning it.
    • Why is it included? Because shows the depth of human sin.
    • Similar to the book Lord of the Flies, where the violence there is shocking holds up a mirror to human nature.
    • The violence shows us what human nature is like.
  • Second, the violence which God does or commands, e.g. the command to drive out the Canaanites and other nations from the Promised Land.
    • This command was giving because of the sin of the Canaanites (Leviticus 20:23). The command to drive them out was actually a judgement upon them.
    • The uncomfortable truth is that God’s character remains consistent across the Old Testament and New Testament: he is loving to those who trust in him, but he punishes sin and wickedness.
    • Compare Nahum 1:2-3, 7-8 with Revelation 19:11-21.
    • God will defeat his enemies in the end because he is just and cannot leave sin unpunished.
  • BUT – Jesus did not come into the world to condemn the world but save the world (John 3:16-17). The offer stands open to anyone to come to him and not receive what our sins deserve, but to find forgiveness.

Explore further

There’s a whole session of the What is Christianity? course on the Old Testament.

Your questions answered

This is part of the Your questions answered feature. See that page for more videos in the series.

If you have a question about Christianity or the Bible, please send them in or comment below.

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Wisdom of Proverbs: Love and Marriage

Proverbs is full of wisdom: wisdom is how to live in God’s world in God’s ways. Many people love to turn to Proverbs to discover what wisdom it contains for living everyday life. However, one of the problems with Proverbs is that the wisdom is not really categorised – it doesn’t come with an index system! I have found one of the best way of getting into Proverbs is drawing out everything it says on a particular topic.

In this article we’re going to look at what Proverbs has to say about love and marriage.

One thing which we need to say to begin with is that Proverbs is addressed from a Father to a Son. This means that everything is written from a male perspective. This is not to say that women cannot read and benefit from this advice as well! But it does explain why it seems to address a man rather than women directly.

Let’s put together some of the wisdom that Proverbs contains about love and marriage.

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Why is the fear of the Lord the BEGINNING of wisdom?

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge,
but fools despise wisdom and instruction.

Proverbs 1:7

Someone asked me a question the other day about the fear of the Lord. It got me thinking about Proverbs 1:7, which famously says that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge (or wisdom). But the word which really struck me this time is the beginning. What does it mean for the fear of the Lord to be the beginning of wisdom? And what’s the end?

Let’s start by thinking about what the fear of the Lord actually is.

What is the fear of the Lord?

The Hebrew word translated ‘fear’ (yirah) can mean fear or terror, but when it is used in relation to God it means something like respect or reverence. It’s the same kind of idea we might say about treating those in authority – maybe parents, or teachers, or police. (We don’t tend to think in those terms these days – it does sound very old-fashioned!)

I think it’s important to say that doesn’t mean we have to be scared of God. A lot of people have had abusive fathers or authority figures and have been terrified of them. God is absolutely not like that! We’ll come onto this more in a moment.

So that’s what the fear of the Lord is not. Let’s look at what the fear of the Lord actually is.

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Mental Health Support – Psalm 91 – God our fortress

Psalm 91 helps us to understand that God is our fortress – he can protect us from anything that might happen.

Please note – This is the final mental health livestream before Easter.

Last week’s session was on Psalm 84 – “Cast your anxiety on him”. All previous sessions are available on this playlist.

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God is the ruler that we need – WSC #11

Who’s really in charge of the world? In this session we look at something called God’s providence, which means not only that God is in charge but that he’s a good ruler – the ruler we really need.

More Thought for the Week…

This is part of the weekly Thought for the Week series. This series is designed to give a short, 10-15 minute ‘thought’, including a Bible reading and a prayer. Currently I am working through the Westminster Shorter Catechism. You can see all videos on the catechism on this playlist.

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